How to Meditate Properly Guidelines

Meditation is worked out and performed ritually in India and other parts worldwide for years and years.  Health experts have proven its amazing benefits to the body, mind, and soul.  It is one of the most efficient ways to relieve stress, regularize a person's breathing pattern, and get inner peace.  But what's oct significant to learn how to meditate properly is its ability to train you on focus and concentration.

Many stars, personalities and athletes are actually involved with yoga and meditation.  Actually it is bit by bit turning into a trend for anyone who really wants to free themselves of the stress and anxiety brought about by work and stressful lifestyle.  By learning how to meditate properly, you'll be able to increase calmness and physical relaxation, improve wellness and well-being.

How To Meditate: A 10 Step Beginner's Guide

Meditation helps you to grow your own intuitive faculty.  It becomes very clear what is going to fulfill you, what is going to help you flower.

- Osho

Life can get a little crazy at times.  The hectic pace and demand we face on a daily basis often leave us feeling stressed, overworked, tired and even unhappy.  Meditation is a simple, effective and convenient way to calm your busy mind, relax your body, become grounded and find inner peace amidst the chaos of day-to-day life.

I was first introduced to meditation at thirty years of age by the idea of becoming a better person.  This lead me to discovering that I would like to be a more spiritual person.  I then came across an article, that I have shared on my page, that says in order to help become a spiritual person you should try meditation.  I've been really working at becoming a better person and it sounds like by meditating it will help to accomplish that!  I'm excited and I think I will DO my first meditation tomorrow after I wake up!  I cannot wait to quiet my thoughts, start feeling present and start enjoying a sense of relaxation and peace that says can happen when meditating.  I hope I will enjoy it and continue to explore different approaches and ways to meditate and hope to discover the benefits that I have read about in previous posts about the benefits...

Newcomers to meditation often feel intimidated.  They imagine a monk sitting in lotus pose for hours on end atop a mountain.  But the reality is that meditation is much easier and accessible than most people realize.

Here is a simple 10 step beginner's guide to meditation:

1.  Sit tall

The most common and accessible position for meditation is sitting.  Sit on the floor, in a chair or on a stool. If you are seated on the floor it is often most comfortable to sit cross-legged on a cushion.  Comfort is key.  Now imagine a thread extending from the top of your head, pulling your back, neck and head straight up towards to ceiling in a straight line.  Sit tall.

2.  Relax your body

Close your eyes and scan your body, relaxing each body part one at a time.  Begin with your toes, feet, ankles, shins and continue to move up your entire body.  Don't forget to relax your shoulders, neck, face, jaw and tongue which are all common areas for us to hold tension.

3.  Be still and silent

Now that you are sitting tall and relaxed, take a moment to be still.  Just sit.  Be aware of your surroundings, your body, the sounds around you.  Don't react or attempt to change anything.  Just be aware.

4.  Breathe

Turn your attention to your breath.  Breathe silently, yet deeply.  Engage your diaphragm and fill you lungs, but do not force your breath.  Notice how your breath feels in your nose, throat, chest and belly as it flows in and out.

5.  Establish a mantra

A mantra is a sound, word or phrase that can be repeated throughout your meditation.  Mantras can have spiritual, vibrational and transformative benefits, or they can simply provide a point of focus during meditation.  They can be spoken aloud or silently to yourself.  A simple and easy mantra for beginners is to silently say with each breath, I am breathing in, I am breathing out.

6.  Calm your mind

As you focus on your breath or mantra, your mind will begin to calm and become present.  This does not mean that thoughts will cease to arise.  As thoughts come to you, simply acknowledge them, set them aside, and return your attention to your breath or mantra.  Don't dwell on your thoughts.  Some days your mind will be busy and filled with inner chatter, other days it will remain calm and focused.  Neither is good or bad.

7.  When to end your practice

There is no correct length of time to practice meditation, however when first beginning it is often easier to sit for shorter periods of time (5 to 10 minutes).  As you become more comfortable with your practice, meditate longer.  Set an alarm if you prefer to sit for a predetermined length of time.  Another option is to decide on the number of breaths you will count before ending your practice.  A male is a helpful tool to use when counting breaths.

8.  How to end your practice

When you are ready to end your practice, slowing bring your conscious attention back to your surroundings.  Acknowledge your presence in the space around you.  Gently wiggle your fingers and toes. Begin to move your hands, feet, arms, and legs.  Open your eyes.  Move slowly and take your time getting up.

9.  Practice often

Consistency is more important than quantity.  Meditating for 5 minutes every day will reward you with far greater benefits than meditating for two hours, one day a week.

10.  Practice everywhere

Most beginners find it easier to meditate in a quiet space at home, but as you become more comfortable, begin exploring new places to practice.  Meditating outdoors in nature can be very peaceful, and taking the opportunity to meditate on the bus or in your office chair can be an excellent stress reliever.

Meditation is a simple, effective and convenient way to calm your busy mind, relax your body, become grounded and find inner peace amidst the chaos of day-to-day life.  Begin meditating today and reap the rewards.

How to Meditate

Meditation is a mental discipline by which one attempts to get beyond the conditioned, "thinking" mind into a deeper state of relaxation or awareness.  To free one's awareness from associating solely with the mind and its thoughts.  There are many different meditation methods.

At the core of meditation is the goal to focus and eventually quiet your mind, thus freeing your awareness.  as you progress, you will find that you can meditate anywhere and at any time, accessing your inner calm no matter what's going on around you.  You will also find that you can better control your reactions to things as you become increasingly aware of your thoughts (letting go of anger, for example).  But first, you have to learn to tame your mind and control your breathing.

Steps

1.  Make time to meditate.  Set aside enough time in your daily routine for meditating.  The effects of meditation are most noticeable when you do it regularly, some like to end the day by clearing their mind, and some prefer to find refuge in meditation in the middle of a busy day.  Generally, however, the easiest time to meditate is in the morning, before the day tires your body out and gives you mind more to think about.

2.  Find or create a quiet, relaxing environment.  It's especially important when you're starting out, to avoid any obstacles to attention.  Turn off any TV sets, phone or other noisy appliances.  If you play music, make sure it's calm, repetitive and gently, so as not to break your concentration.  Meditating outside can be conductive as long as you don't sit near a busy roadway or another source of loud noise.

3.  Sit on level ground.  Sit on a cushion if the ground is uncomfortable.  You don't have to twist your limbs into the half lotus or full lotus position or adapt any unusual postures.  The important thing is to keep your back straight, as this will help with breathing later on.

• Tilt your pelvis forward by sitting on the forward edge of a thick cushion, or on a chair that has its back legs lifted off the ground 8 to 10 cm (3 or 4 inches).
• Starting from your bottom, stack up the vertebrae in your spine, so that they are balanced one on top of another and support the whole weight of your torso, neck, and head.  Done correctly it feels as if no effort is required to hold your torso up.  (A small amount of effort is in fact required, but with the right posture, it is so small and evenly distributed you don't notice it.)
• Relax your arms and legs.  They don't need to be in any special position, just as long as they are relaxed and don't interfere with balancing your torso.  You can put your hands on your thighs, but it might be easier at first to let your arms hang at your sides--the hanging weight helps reveal where things are out of alignment.

4.  Relax everything, and keep searching for things that aren't relaxed.  When you find them, (and you will), relax them.  You may find that you can't relax them unless you adjust your posture so that you are better aligned, and that place doesn't need to work anymore.  This commonly happens with muscles near your spine.  You may also notice that you are twisted a little and need to straighten out.  Little muscles in your face often keep getting tense, too.

5.  Let your attention rest on the flow of your breath.  listen to it, follow it, but make no judgments on it (such as "It sounds a little raspy...maybe I'm getting a cold?")  The goal is to allow the "chattering" in your mind to gradually fade away.  Find an "anchor" to settle your mind.

• Try reciting a mantra (repetition of a sacred word).  A single word like "om" uttered at a steady rhythm is best.  You can recite it verbally or just with the voice in your mind.  Beginners may find it easier to count their breaths.  Try counting your breath from 1 through 10, then simply start again at 1.
• To circumvent images that keep intruding on your thoughts, visualize a place that calms you.  It can be real or imaginary.  Imagine you are at the top of a staircase leading to a peaceful place.  Count your way down the steps until you are peaceful and relaxed.

6.  Silence your mind.  Once you've trained your mind to focus on just one thing at a time, the next step is focus on nothing at all, essentially "clearing" your mind.  This requires tremendous discipline but is the pinnacle of meditation.  After focusing on a single point as described in the previous step, you can either cast it away, or observe it impartially and let it come and then go, without labeling it as "good" or "bad".  Take the same approach to any thoughts which return to your mind until silence perseveres.

Tips

• For some people, focusing attention on a point or object does exactly the opposite of what meditation is all about.  It takes you back to the life of focus, concentration, strain.  In this case, as an alternative to the above techniques, some meditators recommend un-focusing your attention.  Instead of focusing attention on a point or an object, this type of meditation is achieved by attaining a state of zero.  Take your attention above all thoughts to a point where you lose all attention and all thoughts.

• What you do with a silent mind is up to you.  Some people find that it is a good time to introduce an intention or a desired outcome to the subconscious mind.  Others prefer to "rest" in the rare silence that meditation offers.
• You should be comfortable enough to concentrate, but not so comfortable that you feel the urge to fall asleep
• Make some effort to be mindful of your mood and thoughts when not meditating.  You may notice that you feel calmer, happier, and sharper on days when you have meditated, and notice a decrease in these qualities when you have not.
• It may be beneficial to mentally review or replay the previous day at the start of your sessions, if you can do so in a relaxed, passive way.  This often happens naturally, and sometimes it's best to allow this to happen, as long as you don't get emotionally wrapped up or let it go on too long before beginning meditation.  This procedure is known as "processing" of recent events, and becoming skills at a non-judgmental review of events does much to increase your awareness and emotional well-being.
• The benefits of meditation can be experiences long before the practitioner has been successful in maintaining focus or clearing the mind, simply as a result of the practice.
• Set aside a specific time each day for meditation, but don't overdo it.  If 20-30 minutes in the morning isn't enough, add another session later in the day instead of trying for a single, longer session.
• If you find it difficult to meditate for the length of time you have chosen, try a shorter time for a while.  Almost anyone can meditate for a minute or two without experiencing intrusive thoughts.  Then, as the ocean of the mind calms, you gradually lengthen your meditation until you have achieved the desired length of time.
• It is easy to lose track of time while meditating.  Being concerned about time can be distracting to meditation.  Some people find it liberating to set a timer and let it be concerned about how long you have to meditate.  Choose a gently timer.  If it is too jarring, the anticipation of the alarm can be distracting also.
• With good posture, it will be easier to breathe as your lungs will have more space.  In fact, you may notice how most of the muscles in your torso work to help you breathe, from the muscles at the base of your pelvis to the ones in your neck, centered on the main breathing muscle, the diaphragm.  They work just a little, assisting the diaphragm.  If you notice this, its a good sign you have established a good posture.  The right posture is easy and comfortable.  You almost feel like you are floating.
• Do what works best for you.  What works for some people might have other techniques that might not work for you.  Don't let that get you down.  Remember to relax!

Warnings

• Don't expect immediate results.  The purpose of meditation is not to turn you into a Zen master overnight.  Meditation work best when it is done for tis own sake, without becoming attached to results.
• If you find your mind wandering, try not to scold or beat yourself up about it.  Wandering restlessly is the normal state of the conditioned mind.  This is the first lesson many people learn in meditation and its a valuable one.  Simply, gently, invite your attention back to your breath, remembering that you've just had a small but precious "awakening."  Becoming aware of your wandering mind it a success, not a failure.
• Some people find it's difficult to meditate immediately before bedtime.  If you're very sleepy, you may find yourself nodding off.  Conversely, meditating may energize your mind, making it more difficult to fall asleep.
• As you meet other people who meditate, you may encounter a few who will boast about their endurance for long meditation sessions, even hours and hours at a sitting.  Don't be tempted to change your practice to "keep up."  Meditation is not competitive.  It's a way of life.
• If your posture is good, you will almost certainly feel a stretch on the back of your neck, and possibly in your shoulders.  Just relax.  If the stretch is so pronounced that it is painful, working on stretching and relaxing that area when you aren't meditating.

July 8, 2012

So I've been on a mission!  I've been researching how to become a more spiritual person, and I have learned so much!  I have been researching meditation for the last few days and have decided to give it a try after I'm done learning how to do it exactly.  I really like writing about things and I'm a knowledge junkie so this is kind of a big, but fun, project for me!  Another huge step in becoming a more spiritual person by researching and calling the church I'd like to go to.  I've even downloaded a Bible app for my computer to start reading verses and learning about Christianity.  My ultimate goal is to learn about all different types of religion to see which one(s) appeal to me the most.

I'm really excited about doing all these things and taking the (baby) steps to become a more spiritual person!  I truly believe these are the correct stepping stones to bettering my life, and I've barely put a dent in the research I would like to accomplish both about being a more spiritual person and better person.  Next on my blog I'd like to add some informational posts on meditation so I hope you are ready to follow me in this journey!

How to Set Goals Spritually

Setting spiritual goals can help you lead a more fulfilling life.  There are many types of spiritual goals depending on your individual belief system and your personal spiritual needs.  It helps to begin by praying, meditating, and studying the sacred texts of your belief system to get an accurate idea of the areas in your spiritual life that require improvement.  Speaking with clergy leaders can also help you get additional clarification on potential areas for improvement.

Instructions

1.  Consider the areas of your spiritual life that need improvement.  Examine your relationships with family and friends and determine whether or not you are living in accordance with the ideals you believe in spiritually.

2.  Envision what success in your spiritual goals would be like, and what behavior you would demonstrate to meet your goals.  Write down all of your conclusions in a journal.

3.  Make the changes in your behavior and actions that you envisioned previously to achieve your goals.  Determine potential obstacles that can hinder your spiritual growth and progress.  Eliminate as many of these as possible.

4.  Choose spiritual goals that will have a positive effect on yourself.

5.  Break down goals into manageable steps by getting to the root of problems or negative aspects in your life you need to change.  For instance, if your goals is to be kinder, work on the way you talk to others.  Steps would include using positive words, keeping you temper, and considering your words before you speak them.

6.  Set a realistic deadline to achieve the different stages of each spiritual goal.  Write each deadline in your journal to record your commitment.

7.  Write down methods you can use to measure your level of progress.  Using the prior example, you could measure progress in growing kinder by noticing when you are experiencing more love in your relationships with others.  Measuring progress gives you a more concrete thing to work toward so that you can stay motivated and moving forward.

8.  Record your progress in your journal.  You will be able to read how you set up spiritual goals, overcame obstacles and achieved steps.  This will help you meet future goals.

How to Be a Spiritual Person

Spirituality is more prevalent now than it was twenty years ago thanks to Oprah and magazines like Yoga Journal and Spirituality + Health.  If you're on a spiritual path and would like some fresh inspiration, you've found some here.

Instructions

1.  Don't judge yourself or others.  The path of a spiritual person is to release judgments for themselves and others.  You trust that there is always a divine plan to every person's life and every situation.

2.  Do not gossip or talk badly of others.  When you have an opportunity to speak a kind word, take it.  Humanity needs more love and support and less criticism and condemning.

3.  Add your light to the world.  Lend a hand to create positive change.  This can be through volunteer work, sponsoring a child or endangered species, donating to a cause you're passionate about, recycling and being conscious of the world you live in - from the environment to other people's feelings.

4.  Learn how to balance.  The joy of being a spiritual person is being aware of the life process and it's challenges, and striving to create the time to balance work, play, and rest.

5.  Respect yourself.  A spiritual person believes that self-love is necessary to love others.  Taking loving care of yourself through a healthy diet, exercise and quiet time allows you reflective healing time with the Divine, which in turn allows you to give more joy, love and wisdom to others.

6.  Stay in the now.  Being present is essential on the spiritual path.  Acknowledging that we are free from the limitations of time if we learn to truly live in the now allows us to receive new opportunities and manifest miracles.

7.  Don't give up.  There may be days when you feel doubt or fear creep in.  Being a spiritual person doesn't mean you have to be perfect.  Your coal is already perfect - it's your human self you're learning from.  Open yourself up to learning the lessons and try to find joy and humor in the process.

8.  Do not harm.  Try to avoid killing bugs.  This simple act of kindness can create a major shift within your consciousness.  Choose your words wisely.  As a spiritual person you recognize how powerful your words are and you express yourself from a place of love and compassion for others, always with the intention to heal, learn and grow.

9.  Avoid becoming a spiritual snob.  You can never know it all.  Your way is not better than someone else's.  Remain humble and in a state of gratitude and awe for this incredibly interesting world we live in.

10.  Keep learning.  As a spiritual person, you have a thirst for knowledge and self-discovery.  You are always working towards becoming a better person, a kinder and more loving person.  A forgiving person.  Read inspiring books and surround yourself with positive people.  Watch inspiring and education films.  Invite art and literature into your life.  A spiritual person is rich with passion and love for all of life and is on a lifelong quest to keep evolving and growing beyond self-imposed limitations.

How to Become More Spiritual

If you want to become more spiritual it only takes a few short steps and the results will astound you.  You'll feel better, think clearer and bring more joy into your life.  Spiritually has very little to do with organized religion, prayers or chanting.  It's more of a lifestyle and a state of mind.  If you loathe stress and living with a dog-eat-dog attitude, here's how to become more spiritual.

Instructions

1.  Meditate to find inner peace.  Often in the turmoil of daily life, people forget about the true meaning of life and what's really important.  Sit on a pillow or mat in a quiet place and clear your mind.  This will be hard at first, but with practice, you'll be able to eliminate extraneous thoughts and relax.

2.  Read spiritual works.  This can mean anything from the Bible to the Hindu sacred text, like the Upanishads and Vedas, from pop culture books like "The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success" to books about Buddhism and Taoism.  Explore a wide variety of spiritual and religious texts to find what appeals to you.

3.  Help others.  Actions speak louder than words, so consider volunteer work for your favorite charity or simply baby-sit a neighbor's child so she can go to night school.  A spiritual person thrives on turning thoughtful words and feelings into reality.  Reciting Bible passages may calm the nerves, but help others to achieve true spirituality.

4.  Write and create by keeping a diary of daily feelings and observations.  You can include drawing collages, photos and other artwork in it.  Use the journal as one part healing therapy, and one part spiritual quest.  By combining the two, you'll learn how inward observation and selflessness can make you live a calmer, more centered life.

5.  Mind your manners--and your words.  Become kinder to people each day, in your personal life and work situations.  Be aware of other people's thoughts and feelings, and offer to help them when you can do so.  This will create good karma for you--but of course, that shouldn't be the motive for being kind.

6.  Commune with nature.  Go for a walk in the woods or on the beach instead of going to a crowded health club.  Hike a nature trail or take in a stray cat or two.  Forsake the usual materialistic pursuits and you'll feel better and become more spiritual in the long run.